If only…

If I only knew then what I know now…

if we only had stayed in touch, that wouldn’t have happened…

He should have paid for the damn dinner…

You shouldn’t say I’m incompetent…

If I had only stopped and asked her about here boyfriend…

She should have done the dishes…

If he only checked the oil…


It’s not my fault.Zion

It’s not his or her fault.

It’s not your fault.

It’s not the world’s fault.


I offer you a ‘no blame’ option.

What if life is the way it is?

What if it’s perfect because it is?


I’m not saying don’t learn from the past, I’m saying don’t beat yourself up or hold others hostage in your mind for their actions.  Learn and move on.  Yes, I’m saying it to myself too. Let it go. Embrace what is.  An every moment it’s the challenge and opportunity.


“When you argue with reality, you loose, but only 100% of the time.”

(Byron Katie)


How is this baggage bringing me down?

What is the tunnel I’m in?

Where is the light at the end of it?


Let’s explore this terrain of magnificent beauty,

The beauty of a world of being

a world of letting go, and letting be

A world of honoring

and grace


shall we?

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